Deserving
The parking conditions were overcrowded when I brought one of my daughters to her swim meet. Since the main lot was filled, many of us parked in the more distant lot and walked a short distance to the pool. Others, however, parked in a restricted area that is especially close to the swimming facility. This restricted area is reserved for those with physical disabilities and emergency vehicles.
There was no security presence on the scene to control this situation; and this meant that some acted in a lawless and selfish manner because they believed they could get away with it. They probably had no feelings of regret or remorse; and I suspect that is because they viewed themselves as deserving.
This deserving attitude was likely based on the rationalization that they were justified in their behavior because it occurred within the context of taking their child to a swimming event. That thinking would have furthered the person’s view of themselves as a good parent, and worthy of special treatment.
It is remarkable that people arrive at these conclusions. Those in question showed that it is only when they fear punishment that they adhere to laws that promote the safety and well-being of the community; and they defaulted to a deluded and self-centered attitude to justify their behavior.
That leads to the question of what attitudes and behaviors make one truly deserving. Jesus had something to say on this topic.
He said:
“Blessed are the poor in spirit,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are those who mourn,
for they will be comforted.
Blessed are the meek,
for they will inherit the earth.
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
for they will be filled.
Blessed are the merciful,
for they will be shown mercy.
Blessed are the pure in heart,
for they will see God.
Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they will be called children of God.
Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”
The Beatitudes reveal that the “goodness” that comes from parental instinct or learned behavior is not enough. When the good man approached Jesus and asked what else he needed to do to gain heaven, Jesus responded by telling him to do more!
Our actions should be representative of the calling we all share, and that is to rise above our human/animal impulses, and to partner with God in advancing goodness and life. We should follow that path humbly, and without false pride.